Hey 👋🏼 Ladies!!!
The reason I have not had a chance to write to you, is because ya girl has been crazy busy lately! When I tell you I am so overdue for a pampering spa-package and a beach 🏖 vacay, I don’t know what to do!
Any who, today’s blog is not about me,
It’s about us.
Getting the love we deserve,
being treated with respect
having our hearts handled with care.
And US, knowing who we are, and not settling for anything less than what we truly deserve.
A man who will have a heart after God and a man who will love us to infinity and beyond.
With that being said ladies, without further ado, I present to you, “When God Writes Your Love Story.”
1. 😇 You won’t be in constant battle ✍🏼
I am a firm believer, that when God writes your love story, it will be one of the most peaceful relationships ever.
Because God will be in it!
I know I’ve probably mentioned this before, but I want you ladies to really understand me.
The only time you or your guy friend should ever be warring is when the two of you are (warring in prayer for one another, or against the enemy). There should never be an ongoing war just to maintain your relationship.
- You should not be warring and praying that a man calls you back
- You should not be fasting for him to take you out on a date
- And you definitely shouldn’t have to call the mother board & intercessory team, to touch & agree with you that a man will see your worth and choose you to be his wife.
(Yes I have been around women in the church who have actually done that) 🤦🏽♀️
If you’re doing all that praying and warring just to get him, can you imagine all the trouble you will have to go through to keep him?
The truth is,
⭐️NOTE: You will never have to war for a man whom The Lord is ready & willing to give to you.
Although, you will have to (cover) your boyfriend or soon to be husband in prayer, (because the enemy will try to attack what God has joined together) however, you should not be warring for the basic requirements a man should provide in an exclusive relationship.
It just doesn’t make sense.
I know it may hurt to let someone go who’s been apart of your life for many months or years, but God wants to give you someone greater than a man who’s only giving 20% of himself. Retire from your tug-o-war game sis and show The Lord you trust Him!
Let go and make room for The New Thing God wants to do in your life!
⭐️NOTE: When God has approved the two of you, His grace will flow all over the relationship, because you’re in alignment with His will.
2. 😇 You won’t have to change yourself ✍🏼
When God is writing your story, you won’t have to change who you are just to make this person happy.
I am a woman who’s Loves the Lord, I love worshipping, I’m silly, I sing, I love to cook, I love writing, I enjoy cleaning, I’m extremely goofy, I’m sweet and laid back, yet very discerning. I’m deep, I find revelation in the smallest of things and I see in the spiritual realm; angels, demons and all.
But if I have to stop being deep, stop singing, stop being silly or dumb myself down just because I don’t want to seem like I’m too much for someone, God is not in it.
⭐️NOTE: Know the value of self.
I am very valuable, and I know that now more than ever before. Years ago, when I didn’t know my value, I would pretend to be weak, dumb and many other things, just so I wouldn’t intimidate or offend the man I was dating.
But now… I simply don’t care 🤷🏽♀️ lol.
And neither should you.
If you have to make major changes in your personality, or alter the best parts of you, I guarantee! You are not getting Gods best. God would never ask you to hide the real you for a man sis.
So, don’t do it!
Let the real you shine ☀️ and your Hubby will be attracted to you. Not some fake made up version you’re pretending to be.
⭐️NOTE: If he doesn’t like the real you, he’s not who God has for you.
3. 😇 You Will Feel Special ✍🏼
When God is writing your love story, He will give you a man that will sweep you off your feet.
My sis at my church ⛪ just got engaged in the most romantic way ever, and this man is head over heels for her as she is for him. The love they have for one another and all the planning this man did, had all the sisters in church in tears! Especially me!
Hearing her love story and seeing the engagement video not only gave me hope that God will have someone like that for me one day, but it also confirmed what I already knew about men.
And what I knew was when a man is truly in love with you, he will go to great depths just to make sure you know that. Time will not separate his love and circumstances will not make him change his mind. He will even move mountains if he has to.
If you’re with a man and your unsure of his feelings for you, he never defines the relationship, or he simply seems to not care much about the relationship at all?
It’s probably time to rest and give that thing up sis..
The Bible says,
⭐️Proverbs 10:22– The blessings of the Lord makes a person rich, and He adds no sorrow with it.
What God is saying is that every blessing that comes from Him will prosper you and make you richer and there will be no sorrow attached to it!
Is this person making me richer?
What value are they adding to my life?
Are they depositing into me or simply withdrawing?
If you’re sorrowful, warring all the time and feel as if you are left hanging like a loose thread, think 💭 is this who The Father? The giver of good gifts truly have for me?
Some of you already know the answer to that question.
But for the ones who don’t know and really want clarity, Pray and ask God about them. (Just be ready for the answer).
And if The Lord is not writing your love story, and you want Him to; I challenge you to turn in your ink pen and allow Him (The Author and finisher of our Faith) to write a love story that will be divinely directed by The Lord Himself.
Love you girls!
🌻 Takyah 🌻